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Porn Stories: The Prelude

November 19th, 2006 Leave a comment Go to comments

I believe in all of the freedoms granted to those who live in this great country. I believe those freedoms extend to everyone, not just those with whom I agree. That being the case, I oppose legislating porn out of existence. That is not the right route to follow. Each time a company contacts me for an interview or to ask my opinions on porn, one of the first things I let them know is that I am against taking away the rights of pornographers.

I feel education is a better answer. We’re not “in a battle” with pornographers, we’re in a battle with ourselves. Those who wish to escape from some sort of attraction or addiction to pornography really need to look inwardly and stop blaming their problem on everyone else. Our problems and addictions will never be conquered if all we do is take away the temptations. I’d rather create a cure, not just treat the symptoms.

Much of the appeal of porn can be taken away be removing the mystery of porn. And thats what I intend to do with my life: educate others. My goal is to share some of the stories of porn production from my past, and in so doing I want to show men and women that the reality of pornography is not nearly as attractive as it’s made out to be. Pornography is not glamorous. The fantasy portrayed on camera doesn’t exist. There is an ugly human cost that is paid to bring this product to market.

In thinking of the best game plan to follow, my biggest problem is deciding how graphic to get with my writings. Many Christians seem to want to focus on pretty pictures. Too much muck and mire bothers them. But to show the true realities of life, sometimes the muck and mire needs to be shown. I’m concerned with the fact that, while most of my readers are adults, I probably have a few who are under the age of 18. In this age of the internet they’ve probably seen it all anyway, but it is still of concern to me.

Despite my concerns, in the very near future I will start a series of stories on the realities of pornography. It may turn your stomach. In fact, I hope it does. Showing the truth behind the myth just might help those of you who wish to lose your attraction to porn. In the very least, it will further open your eyes and make you realize exactly what you support by consuming this product.

In the meantime, please give your opinions as to what my limits should be, either in comments here or via private email. My email address is all over this blog. I’ll seriously consider all feedback.

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  • Anonymous

    Oh boohoo.”Don’t tell the stories because someone might get turned on.”"Put a disclaimer so my virgin eyes don’t have to read your garbage!”"Everyone might not be able to handle your stories, put the content on a page you have to click to.”To all of your people spewing this nonsense wake the ____ up. Welcome to earth, population billions. The people that “don’t need to see” whatever you want to protect them from will see it somewhere no matter what. If we censored everything based on it offending 1 or 10000 people there would be NOTHING LEFT TO READ. To the guy “struggling with teh pr0ns” you can start by getting off the damn internet. You people want to turn everything into some biblical fight between God telling you to keep your pecker tucked in and the Devil telling you to whip it out while watching twins please 3 guys and a monkey. Stop making damn excuses and either decide you want to jerk off all day or not. If not stay the hell away from porn, former pornographers, and make sure your browser will only load http://www.disney.com . Christians are hilarious. If you can’t blame anyone else just blame temptation. How about blaming your stupid self for being such a weak idiot.

  • Anonymous

    Oh boohoo.

    “Don’t tell the stories because someone might get turned on.”

    “Put a disclaimer so my virgin eyes don’t have to read your garbage!”

    “Everyone might not be able to handle your stories, put the content on a page you have to click to.”

    To all of your people spewing this nonsense wake the ____ up. Welcome to earth, population billions. The people that “don’t need to see” whatever you want to protect them from will see it somewhere no matter what. If we censored everything based on it offending 1 or 10000 people there would be NOTHING LEFT TO READ.

    To the guy “struggling with teh pr0ns” you can start by getting off the damn internet. You people want to turn everything into some biblical fight between God telling you to keep your pecker tucked in and the Devil telling you to whip it out while watching twins please 3 guys and a monkey. Stop making damn excuses and either decide you want to jerk off all day or not. If not stay the hell away from porn, former pornographers, and make sure your browser will only load http://www.disney.com .

    Christians are hilarious. If you can’t blame anyone else just blame temptation. How about blaming your stupid self for being such a weak idiot.

  • brad

    while there might be a point in what ‘anonymous’ just wrote, its hard to find behind the ignorant rant and moronic language. i think i just learned that if i ever have something important to say, i need to keep it intelligent.

  • brad

    while there might be a point in what ‘anonymous’ just wrote, its hard to find behind the ignorant rant and moronic language. i think i just learned that if i ever have something important to say, i need to keep it intelligent.

  • Anonymous

    Or at least semi-intelligent with Disney references. And putting down christians to boost your self esteem.:)Ron

  • Anonymous

    Or at least semi-intelligent with Disney references. And putting down christians to boost your self esteem.

    :)
    Ron

  • The Dutch Guy

    Hello Donny,I’d like to read your stories on the reality of porn. If I understand right, it will be a major turn off rather than a turn on. I just read the essay “The Truth Behind the Fantasy of Porn” by Shelley Lubben, it’s good to read things like that. I also watched this BBC-documentary on pornactors recently, and they asked this guy what he wanted to do _after_ his porncareer, and how he felt about the risk of getting a sexually transmittable disease, and he was like “well, I don’t care if I die, I got nothing to live for anyway”. It was sad, and I don’t mind hearing about the sad side of porn. These things come back to mind when I consume porn and make me think.. Just like what you told here about girls doing a photoshoot to make some quick cash and regretting it a while later. I just never thought about that. I think it’s good to learn about the downside of porn, at least for me it is.

  • The Dutch Guy

    Hello Donny,

    I’d like to read your stories on the reality of porn. If I understand right, it will be a major turn off rather than a turn on. I just read the essay “The Truth Behind the Fantasy of Porn” by Shelley Lubben, it’s good to read things like that. I also watched this BBC-documentary on pornactors recently, and they asked this guy what he wanted to do _after_ his porncareer, and how he felt about the risk of getting a sexually transmittable disease, and he was like “well, I don’t care if I die, I got nothing to live for anyway”. It was sad, and I don’t mind hearing about the sad side of porn. These things come back to mind when I consume porn and make me think.. Just like what you told here about girls doing a photoshoot to make some quick cash and regretting it a while later. I just never thought about that. I think it’s good to learn about the downside of porn, at least for me it is.

  • Anonymous

    “How graphic” is not as important as “How accurate” in this case. The truth about pornography must be revealed accurately and precisely. So, I think you should be as “graphic” as you have to be in order to accurately describe the reality, if that’s what it takes to do so. No sugar-coating necessary, no exaggeration necessary, just describe as it is, please.My two cents worth… :)

  • Anonymous

    “How graphic” is not as important as “How accurate” in this case. The truth about pornography must be revealed accurately and precisely. So, I think you should be as “graphic” as you have to be in order to accurately describe the reality, if that’s what it takes to do so. No sugar-coating necessary, no exaggeration necessary, just describe as it is, please.

    My two cents worth… :)

  • UKSteve

    The thought does occur to me that there may not be too many people leaving the business with the desire to tell the truth about it in as non-sexual a way as possible. I believe those that do should be encouraged.

  • UKSteve

    The thought does occur to me that there may not be too many people leaving the business with the desire to tell the truth about it in as non-sexual a way as possible. I believe those that do should be encouraged.

  • Donny Pauling

    Perhaps I’ll interview some of the girls who have posed for me in the past. I think the stories in their own words would be powerful.I’d like to share an email sent to me through MySpace:I just read your blog, I can understand that you don’t want to make your stories seem to bad. I live in the “Bible Capital of the world” boasting the largest Baptist chruch in the world. But I also know that we as Christians like to make everything sound soo much better than it actually is. We like to put make up on and act if the problem doesn’t exist. I went to an all male-military school, I don’t think that there is any other place in the world with a higher per-capita amount of porn, that was until I went to the Citadel, The Military College of South Carolina. I am currently getting out of a 7 year porn addiction. I know as a Christian we are expected to set the example, but the darkness still has a way of being very appealing. After broken relationships and overall hitting close to rock bottom, I am making my way back to the top! I dropped out of college, stopped going to church, one-night stands every few days, it was a very dark world. But by God’s grace I have been able to get back up. I tell my story In my personal opinion you should put a disclaimer up and write as you feel. I think you would have a much more effective story if you put it as is, and not edit it. Well, I know this is long and there is more that I was going to put, but my next class is calling. I look forward to hearing your story!I kinda lean toward this line of thought…

  • Donny Pauling

    Perhaps I’ll interview some of the girls who have posed for me in the past. I think the stories in their own words would be powerful.

    I’d like to share an email sent to me through MySpace:

    I just read your blog, I can understand that you don’t want to make your stories seem to bad. I live in the “Bible Capital of the world” boasting the largest Baptist chruch in the world. But I also know that we as Christians like to make everything sound soo much better than it actually is. We like to put make up on and act if the problem doesn’t exist. I went to an all male-military school, I don’t think that there is any other place in the world with a higher per-capita amount of porn, that was until I went to the Citadel, The Military College of South Carolina. I am currently getting out of a 7 year porn addiction. I know as a Christian we are expected to set the example, but the darkness still has a way of being very appealing. After broken relationships and overall hitting close to rock bottom, I am making my way back to the top! I dropped out of college, stopped going to church, one-night stands every few days, it was a very dark world. But by God’s grace I have been able to get back up. I tell my story In my personal opinion you should put a disclaimer up and write as you feel. I think you would have a much more effective story if you put it as is, and not edit it. Well, I know this is long and there is more that I was going to put, but my next class is calling. I look forward to hearing your story!

    I kinda lean toward this line of thought…

  • Anonymous

    “while there might be a point in what ‘anonymous’ just wrote, its hard to find behind the ignorant rant and moronic language. i think i just learned that if i ever have something important to say, i need to keep it intelligent.”Hello Brad, this is planet earth. For future reference it is filled with all sorts of people, even those that don’t try to sugar coat what they are saying to keep from offending others. If I think something is stupid I use the word stupid instead of looking for the proper way to make my observation. As for intelligence, my candid way of speaking is by choice. I see no reason to adjust my language to suit others like so many others you will meet in this world. It’s just silly.

  • Anonymous

    “while there might be a point in what ‘anonymous’ just wrote, its hard to find behind the ignorant rant and moronic language. i think i just learned that if i ever have something important to say, i need to keep it intelligent.”

    Hello Brad, this is planet earth. For future reference it is filled with all sorts of people, even those that don’t try to sugar coat what they are saying to keep from offending others. If I think something is stupid I use the word stupid instead of looking for the proper way to make my observation. As for intelligence, my candid way of speaking is by choice. I see no reason to adjust my language to suit others like so many others you will meet in this world. It’s just silly.

  • Woosh!

    Hi Donny,

    i agree with some of the responses to seek God’s guidance to demystify pornography. I’m in this mission with XXXCHurch and you, not forgetting with Him too.

    I’ve never felt part of a community but yours and XXXChurch would be so great.I like to join in this crusade with this big global community of like-minded people.One heart, one mind, one mission. It’s liberating to my spirit.

    And when I look at those pictures you guys put up on the internet, oh they are so beautiful. If heaven is going to be like this, I wanna go there!:D

  • Woosh!

    Hi Donny,

    i agree with some of the responses to seek God’s guidance to demystify pornography. I’m in this mission with XXXCHurch and you, not forgetting with Him too.

    I’ve never felt part of a community but yours and XXXChurch would be so great.I like to join in this crusade with this big global community of like-minded people.One heart, one mind, one mission. It’s liberating to my spirit.

    And when I look at those pictures you guys put up on the internet, oh they are so beautiful. If heaven is going to be like this, I wanna go there!:D

  • Bob

    Donny,

    Thanks for the courage it took to come start writing about this. You’re site is a welcome distraction, among the sea of filth, I find myself trapped by.

    I think you should definitely be as blunt as possible, but there is a forum for it. I don’t know if requiring a password would help. But that might not make the blatent truth available to those your really need to be awakened by it. Tough call.

    God be with you.

  • Bob

    Donny,

    Thanks for the courage it took to come start writing about this. You’re site is a welcome distraction, among the sea of filth, I find myself trapped by.

    I think you should definitely be as blunt as possible, but there is a forum for it. I don’t know if requiring a password would help. But that might not make the blatent truth available to those your really need to be awakened by it. Tough call.

    God be with you.

  • Dasugo

    there are few things worse than watching a porn actress break the illusion and make you realize that she is not enjoying what she is supposed to be enjoying.

    tell the stories. they are neccesary to help men break the bondage of the porn fantasy.

  • Dasugo

    there are few things worse than watching a porn actress break the illusion and make you realize that she is not enjoying what she is supposed to be enjoying.

    tell the stories. they are neccesary to help men break the bondage of the porn fantasy.

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