tell the stories. they are neccesary to help men break the bondage of the porn fantasy.

Thanks for the courage it took to come start writing about this. You’re site is a welcome distraction, among the sea of filth, I find myself trapped by.

I think you should definitely be as blunt as possible, but there is a forum for it. I don’t know if requiring a password would help. But that might not make the blatent truth available to those your really need to be awakened by it. Tough call.

God be with you.

i agree with some of the responses to seek God’s guidance to demystify pornography. I’m in this mission with XXXCHurch and you, not forgetting with Him too.

I’ve never felt part of a community but yours and XXXChurch would be so great.I like to join in this crusade with this big global community of like-minded people.One heart, one mind, one mission. It’s liberating to my spirit.

And when I look at those pictures you guys put up on the internet, oh they are so beautiful. If heaven is going to be like this, I wanna go there!:D

Hello Brad, this is planet earth. For future reference it is filled with all sorts of people, even those that don’t try to sugar coat what they are saying to keep from offending others. If I think something is stupid I use the word stupid instead of looking for the proper way to make my observation. As for intelligence, my candid way of speaking is by choice. I see no reason to adjust my language to suit others like so many others you will meet in this world. It’s just silly.

I’d like to share an email sent to me through MySpace:

I just read your blog, I can understand that you don’t want to make your stories seem to bad. I live in the “Bible Capital of the world” boasting the largest Baptist chruch in the world. But I also know that we as Christians like to make everything sound soo much better than it actually is. We like to put make up on and act if the problem doesn’t exist. I went to an all male-military school, I don’t think that there is any other place in the world with a higher per-capita amount of porn, that was until I went to the Citadel, The Military College of South Carolina. I am currently getting out of a 7 year porn addiction. I know as a Christian we are expected to set the example, but the darkness still has a way of being very appealing. After broken relationships and overall hitting close to rock bottom, I am making my way back to the top! I dropped out of college, stopped going to church, one-night stands every few days, it was a very dark world. But by God’s grace I have been able to get back up. I tell my story In my personal opinion you should put a disclaimer up and write as you feel. I think you would have a much more effective story if you put it as is, and not edit it. Well, I know this is long and there is more that I was going to put, but my next class is calling. I look forward to hearing your story!

I kinda lean toward this line of thought…

My two cents worth…

I’d like to read your stories on the reality of porn. If I understand right, it will be a major turn off rather than a turn on. I just read the essay “The Truth Behind the Fantasy of Porn” by Shelley Lubben, it’s good to read things like that. I also watched this BBC-documentary on pornactors recently, and they asked this guy what he wanted to do _after_ his porncareer, and how he felt about the risk of getting a sexually transmittable disease, and he was like “well, I don’t care if I die, I got nothing to live for anyway”. It was sad, and I don’t mind hearing about the sad side of porn. These things come back to mind when I consume porn and make me think.. Just like what you told here about girls doing a photoshoot to make some quick cash and regretting it a while later. I just never thought about that. I think it’s good to learn about the downside of porn, at least for me it is.

Ron