You are doing awesome whether you think so or not. I hear Craig and JR talk about you and give so much love to you.

There are so many people who want to see you succeed, please don’t let the nay sayers get you down.

We are all praying for you, man….take care and I hope your Christmas was fun with your boy.

God Bless!

West

donny, i loved velvit elvis.

I thought Christian’s were supposed to own the market on self-righteous, holier-than-thou, pious, judgemental, pretentious finger-pointing, masked under the vale of concern for the object being judged.

Christian’s could learn a thing or two about a thing or two from some of these kids. They are artisans in their craft.

CHRISTIANS UNITE! WE MUST TAKE BACK OUR ROYAL CROWN OF INDIGNATION AND CONTEMPT FOR OTHERS! IT HAS BEEN STOLEN AWAY!

(dag nabbit who was guarding our crown? this is a catastrophe)

peace|dewde

I don’t know you personally, but I know you’ve got every right and reason to be heartbroken and sad at the dissolving of a relationship. It’s normal and it’s ok to feel what you feel.

I also know from what I’ve read that you’re on the right path. And sometimes that’s just hard. I know you’ve got a lot to celebrate this Christmas too, maybe more than ever before.

Keep doing what you’re doing, and don’t let anybody try to guilt you or make you feel bad about your past. Anybody who does so does not get the concept of grace. It is never too late to turn around, and you’ve done so.

Have a very Merry Christmas and a wonderful 2007 with a truly fresh start.

k.

p.s. Glad to hear you’re reading Velvet Elvis. Great book.

I’ve deleted are comments with links to porn and those which said things about other people that are too personal for their tastes. I have very little to hide, but some of the people in my life don’t want their personal lives discussed in public.

Rational posts, even if they are negative towards me, are left. Comments with no intent other than being an ass and rambling idiotically are sometimes deleted.

Donny doesnt want to face the fact he is irresponsible, and he is just using his “belief” in God as just another excuse to continue not to face up to the real world responsibilities he has, as he lets God provide.

I left porn. I started a new business that is growing quickly. I’m definitely not just sitting back waiting for money to fall from the sky.

Yeah we get it, we just grew up and started taking responsibility for our own lives. If you didn’t like the porn biz great man, glad you are out of it. All the problems you are facing today are due to you being unable to grow up and be a man. Look at your finances, you were making all that money and you didn’t save a dime? Less than 6 months after making tons of money all your things are being reposed, (they are just things you will say) but how many months child support you have saved up? What about college savings for your son?

You believe God will provide, you are using God is just another cop out to having to be a responsible parent. You being in it for the easy money, is just another symptom of your problem, ez money no hard work.

The problem wasnt porn but your inability to face growning up. You always want the easy way out. Now instead of porn you expect God to do all the work for you.

The saddest thing is you use God as an excuse that you dont need to get a realistic plan for your finances and responsibilities, then act holier than thou, about it. Trust me God doesn’t want people to be lazy and expect God to provide.

You wonder why she left you. I guarantee it is not about porn. It is about you not being a man. You had the extreme luck to find someone willing to try you out for a job, but you have not taken that job seriously, playing with the hours and asking your boss to give you time to devote to some other flash in the plan get rich quick idea.

Next we can all see it coming will be the big failure, you’ll lose the job, won’t have money for your kid, etc. Of course you will use the excise Christians must suffer or something or God is testing you. Dude grow up, if not for yourself then for your kid.

There is nothing wrong with believing in God, but reading this blog its clear its just another excuse for you to find another crutch. You need to start facing up to your responsibilities in life and put your kid #1, not yourself. You may not realize it but your religious awakening, and soon to be “persecution and trial” are very very much a selfish act. Quit focusing on your whims and start focusing on your kids need for a stable, dependable father.

Sorry to be so blunt, but you need it. I have been very much like you in the past, and am honestly trying to be helpful to you because I know you don’t see what you are really doing.

Other people have said similar things, Donny just deletes their posts, yours will probably be deleted too. Donny doesnt want to face the fact he is irresponsible, and he is just using his “belief” in God as just another excuse to continue not to face up to the real world responsibilities he has, as he lets God provide.

Believing in God is a great thing, just don’t use it as an excuse to not work hard and deal with your responsibilites. Oh well this will be another deleted post, but what the hey.

I think this is ultimately one of the consequences for your own actions. You decided to reject God at some point in your life and get into a relationship that wasn’t even meant to be there in the first place. You were supposed to give all your heart to your ex-wife when you pledged to her in your wedding. Instead, you committed adultery in a form of producing pornography behind her back, and you eventually gave your heart to Belinda, who really weren’t supposed to be in your life in the first place if you’ve stuck with your original pledge to your ex-wife. Although I sympathize with you for the pain you are going through, you ultimately brought all this upon yourself by choosing to reject God like you did. God’s forgiveness, mercy and Love doesn’t mean there won’t be consequences for your own actions, and I think this heartache is one of them.

I would also like to point out that you are focusing on yourself and not other important people. Have you thought of the heartache your ex-wife has gone through when she found out that you were producing porn behind her back? Have you thought of the heartache your son might have in living with the fact that, no matter how much his daddy loves him, he still has to live with the reality that his parents are forever separated and he might never have a family with happily married parents living under the same roof?

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