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	<title>Comments on: Dear @JohnCMayer &#8211; Re: Producing Porn</title>
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		<title>By: guest</title>
		<link>http://www.donnypauling.com/blog/2010/03/01/dear-johncmayer-re-producing-porn/comment-page-2/#comment-8522</link>
		<dc:creator>guest</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Nov 2011 15:11:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>news flash... your an idiot.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>news flash&#8230; your an idiot.</p>
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		<title>By: Kjpeevers</title>
		<link>http://www.donnypauling.com/blog/2010/03/01/dear-johncmayer-re-producing-porn/comment-page-2/#comment-8494</link>
		<dc:creator>Kjpeevers</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Apr 2011 23:08:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What are you getting from XXXchurch to be their mascot?  I know your a smart enough guy to know which sides is dark/light in the Jedi order.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What are you getting from XXXchurch to be their mascot?  I know your a smart enough guy to know which sides is dark/light in the Jedi order.</p>
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		<title>By: DonnyPauling</title>
		<link>http://www.donnypauling.com/blog/2010/03/01/dear-johncmayer-re-producing-porn/comment-page-2/#comment-4535</link>
		<dc:creator>DonnyPauling</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Aug 2010 01:31:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for your comment, SDQ.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for your comment, SDQ.</p>
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		<title>By: Snowdramaqueen</title>
		<link>http://www.donnypauling.com/blog/2010/03/01/dear-johncmayer-re-producing-porn/comment-page-2/#comment-4534</link>
		<dc:creator>Snowdramaqueen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Aug 2010 01:19:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This was so touching post Donny. Thanks. I&#039;m 17years old girl and porn addicted. I&#039;m trying to get away from that and I&#039;m praying that God will help me with this... I really appreciate that you writed this letter to John. It helped me also. So thanks man.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This was so touching post Donny. Thanks. I&#39;m 17years old girl and porn addicted. I&#39;m trying to get away from that and I&#39;m praying that God will help me with this&#8230; I really appreciate that you writed this letter to John. It helped me also. So thanks man.</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymousfapper</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anonymousfapper</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Apr 2010 11:34:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If I may, this is precisely why I get my jollies off to amateur stuff, where you know it&#039;s just a couple having fun and being exhibitionist, and hentai, where it&#039;s drawn and there really is nobody getting hurt.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If I may, this is precisely why I get my jollies off to amateur stuff, where you know it&#39;s just a couple having fun and being exhibitionist, and hentai, where it&#39;s drawn and there really is nobody getting hurt.</p>
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		<title>By: smkjoy</title>
		<link>http://www.donnypauling.com/blog/2010/03/01/dear-johncmayer-re-producing-porn/comment-page-2/#comment-4491</link>
		<dc:creator>smkjoy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Mar 2010 07:40:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>How about erotica in which there is little in the way of clothes being taken off, or not taken off at all, and no sexual acts being performed? Since these women don&#039;t seem to be professionals, why can&#039;t they be told the potential ramifications of what it can do to their reputation, and that they should have good hygiene such as cleaning their asses? Also, it might be good to tell them to practice insertion with different objects first so they can handle some of the crazy acts without getting injured in various cavities, or practice flexibility and so on. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I think the issues that a porn production crew face don&#039;t have to come about if they educate the amateurs. Otherwise, indeed, if I were a producer and I didn&#039;t take any of these measures, of course I would expect the women to get angry with me after suffering from consequences they go through, and I would probably be disgusted with myself for not teaching or reminding about sexual hygiene. Are producers just thinking about the end product and not the people themselves and the working relationship?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How about erotica in which there is little in the way of clothes being taken off, or not taken off at all, and no sexual acts being performed? Since these women don&#39;t seem to be professionals, why can&#39;t they be told the potential ramifications of what it can do to their reputation, and that they should have good hygiene such as cleaning their asses? Also, it might be good to tell them to practice insertion with different objects first so they can handle some of the crazy acts without getting injured in various cavities, or practice flexibility and so on. </p>
<p>I think the issues that a porn production crew face don&#39;t have to come about if they educate the amateurs. Otherwise, indeed, if I were a producer and I didn&#39;t take any of these measures, of course I would expect the women to get angry with me after suffering from consequences they go through, and I would probably be disgusted with myself for not teaching or reminding about sexual hygiene. Are producers just thinking about the end product and not the people themselves and the working relationship?</p>
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		<title>By: Gus</title>
		<link>http://www.donnypauling.com/blog/2010/03/01/dear-johncmayer-re-producing-porn/comment-page-2/#comment-4490</link>
		<dc:creator>Gus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Mar 2010 09:57:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m here from &lt;a href=&quot;http://somethingawful.com&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;somethingawful.com&lt;/a&gt;.  Clicked the ad on impulse.  This was shocking and eye-opening.  I wasn&#039;t big on porn anyway, for my own reasons, but some of the things you described were incredibly tragic and appalling.  Cosigning that I hope John Mayer sees it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#39;m here from <a href="http://somethingawful.com" rel="nofollow">somethingawful.com</a>.  Clicked the ad on impulse.  This was shocking and eye-opening.  I wasn&#39;t big on porn anyway, for my own reasons, but some of the things you described were incredibly tragic and appalling.  Cosigning that I hope John Mayer sees it.</p>
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		<title>By: Kisadako</title>
		<link>http://www.donnypauling.com/blog/2010/03/01/dear-johncmayer-re-producing-porn/comment-page-2/#comment-4472</link>
		<dc:creator>Kisadako</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Mar 2010 19:54:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just came from somethingawful.com.  Someone posted a banner ad there that led here, to this.
I&#039;ve been around the internet since its inception, seen all the shock, the horror.  I&#039;m 26 years old, never lifted a weapon in anger in my life, live in peaceful suburbia.  My faith is minimal, though I do thank the Lord for saving my girlfriend&#039;s life.  I&#039;ve saved two lives that I know of.  But I digress.

The Internet has always been a rough place.  I&#039;ve seen people performing horrifying acts from the privacy of their own rooms.  I know what a man sounds like as he is beheaded, and I&#039;ve heard people beg for mercy and help as they were roasted alive in the Station fire in Rhode Island.  These things have scarred me, toughened me, made me able to deal with mundane horrors far more easily.

This is rough, though.  Rough in a truly touching way.  It always becomes so easy to forget that, at the end of a day, these people are just that- people.  They have lives, family, friends- and it will all end if word gets out of what they&#039;ve been doing.  Is the problem with their choice to do it?  Or s it with those who perpetuate the culture, the contempt, the hate for those who flaunt their sexuality?  They put themselves in the situation, sure.  If the offer wasn&#039;t there, they couldn&#039;t have accepted it.  But I don&#039;t blame them, Donny, nor should you.  I don&#039;t blame you, nor should anybody else.  The fault is with all of us.  We treat them differently, and ruin their lives because of decisions they have made, call them hussy, slut, whore.  We have all made decisions we aren&#039;t proud of, no one of us is perfect.  We, not as a religion, not as a culture, not as a race, but as a SPECIES, need to step back and say, &quot;The culture of the sex industry is wrong.&quot;  Both in the way it is perpetuated as a business, and the way it is treated by mainstream society.

After all, is not the nature of God forgiveness?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just came from somethingawful.com.  Someone posted a banner ad there that led here, to this.<br />
I&#8217;ve been around the internet since its inception, seen all the shock, the horror.  I&#8217;m 26 years old, never lifted a weapon in anger in my life, live in peaceful suburbia.  My faith is minimal, though I do thank the Lord for saving my girlfriend&#8217;s life.  I&#8217;ve saved two lives that I know of.  But I digress.</p>
<p>The Internet has always been a rough place.  I&#8217;ve seen people performing horrifying acts from the privacy of their own rooms.  I know what a man sounds like as he is beheaded, and I&#8217;ve heard people beg for mercy and help as they were roasted alive in the Station fire in Rhode Island.  These things have scarred me, toughened me, made me able to deal with mundane horrors far more easily.</p>
<p>This is rough, though.  Rough in a truly touching way.  It always becomes so easy to forget that, at the end of a day, these people are just that- people.  They have lives, family, friends- and it will all end if word gets out of what they&#8217;ve been doing.  Is the problem with their choice to do it?  Or s it with those who perpetuate the culture, the contempt, the hate for those who flaunt their sexuality?  They put themselves in the situation, sure.  If the offer wasn&#8217;t there, they couldn&#8217;t have accepted it.  But I don&#8217;t blame them, Donny, nor should you.  I don&#8217;t blame you, nor should anybody else.  The fault is with all of us.  We treat them differently, and ruin their lives because of decisions they have made, call them hussy, slut, whore.  We have all made decisions we aren&#8217;t proud of, no one of us is perfect.  We, not as a religion, not as a culture, not as a race, but as a SPECIES, need to step back and say, &#8220;The culture of the sex industry is wrong.&#8221;  Both in the way it is perpetuated as a business, and the way it is treated by mainstream society.</p>
<p>After all, is not the nature of God forgiveness?</p>
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		<title>By: Kisadako</title>
		<link>http://www.donnypauling.com/blog/2010/03/01/dear-johncmayer-re-producing-porn/comment-page-2/#comment-7376</link>
		<dc:creator>Kisadako</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Mar 2010 19:54:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just came from somethingawful.com.  Someone posted a banner ad there that led here, to this.
I&#039;ve been around the internet since its inception, seen all the shock, the horror.  I&#039;m 26 years old, never lifted a weapon in anger in my life, live in peaceful suburbia.  My faith is minimal, though I do thank the Lord for saving my girlfriend&#039;s life.  I&#039;ve saved two lives that I know of.  But I digress.

The Internet has always been a rough place.  I&#039;ve seen people performing horrifying acts from the privacy of their own rooms.  I know what a man sounds like as he is beheaded, and I&#039;ve heard people beg for mercy and help as they were roasted alive in the Station fire in Rhode Island.  These things have scarred me, toughened me, made me able to deal with mundane horrors far more easily.

This is rough, though.  Rough in a truly touching way.  It always becomes so easy to forget that, at the end of a day, these people are just that- people.  They have lives, family, friends- and it will all end if word gets out of what they&#039;ve been doing.  Is the problem with their choice to do it?  Or s it with those who perpetuate the culture, the contempt, the hate for those who flaunt their sexuality?  They put themselves in the situation, sure.  If the offer wasn&#039;t there, they couldn&#039;t have accepted it.  But I don&#039;t blame them, Donny, nor should you.  I don&#039;t blame you, nor should anybody else.  The fault is with all of us.  We treat them differently, and ruin their lives because of decisions they have made, call them hussy, slut, whore.  We have all made decisions we aren&#039;t proud of, no one of us is perfect.  We, not as a religion, not as a culture, not as a race, but as a SPECIES, need to step back and say, &quot;The culture of the sex industry is wrong.&quot;  Both in the way it is perpetuated as a business, and the way it is treated by mainstream society.

After all, is not the nature of God forgiveness?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just came from somethingawful.com.  Someone posted a banner ad there that led here, to this.<br />
I&#8217;ve been around the internet since its inception, seen all the shock, the horror.  I&#8217;m 26 years old, never lifted a weapon in anger in my life, live in peaceful suburbia.  My faith is minimal, though I do thank the Lord for saving my girlfriend&#8217;s life.  I&#8217;ve saved two lives that I know of.  But I digress.</p>
<p>The Internet has always been a rough place.  I&#8217;ve seen people performing horrifying acts from the privacy of their own rooms.  I know what a man sounds like as he is beheaded, and I&#8217;ve heard people beg for mercy and help as they were roasted alive in the Station fire in Rhode Island.  These things have scarred me, toughened me, made me able to deal with mundane horrors far more easily.</p>
<p>This is rough, though.  Rough in a truly touching way.  It always becomes so easy to forget that, at the end of a day, these people are just that- people.  They have lives, family, friends- and it will all end if word gets out of what they&#8217;ve been doing.  Is the problem with their choice to do it?  Or s it with those who perpetuate the culture, the contempt, the hate for those who flaunt their sexuality?  They put themselves in the situation, sure.  If the offer wasn&#8217;t there, they couldn&#8217;t have accepted it.  But I don&#8217;t blame them, Donny, nor should you.  I don&#8217;t blame you, nor should anybody else.  The fault is with all of us.  We treat them differently, and ruin their lives because of decisions they have made, call them hussy, slut, whore.  We have all made decisions we aren&#8217;t proud of, no one of us is perfect.  We, not as a religion, not as a culture, not as a race, but as a SPECIES, need to step back and say, &#8220;The culture of the sex industry is wrong.&#8221;  Both in the way it is perpetuated as a business, and the way it is treated by mainstream society.</p>
<p>After all, is not the nature of God forgiveness?</p>
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		<title>By: brandy</title>
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		<dc:creator>brandy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Mar 2010 20:50:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-4434&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;@Donny Pauling  &lt;/a&gt; 
Donny,
 I really appreciate your response. Thank you</description>
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Donny,<br />
 I really appreciate your response. Thank you</p>
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